what is self-love


“Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others.”

                                                             Wilfred Peterson

Self-love means acknowledging yourself fully, who you are.  It involves not only how you treat yourself, but, also how do you feel and think about yourself. Many people consider self-love means having a high ego and they correlate with narcissism but, it’s not. Self-love means accepting yourself with all your flaws and weakness. This self-love to yourself makes you, who you are. On the other narcissism means having an erotic interest in oneself or himself. They have a blind eye on their flaws, but,  they prefer to receive admiration from others while overblowing their good qualities.

 self-love heal you


“To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness.” 

                                                                                          Robert Morley

When we depend on other’s appreciation/ views more than your own self. It makes you vulnerable. They feed off on the other views. It may hurt them most of the time Because You can’t impress everyone. But, self-love makes you free from perfection. It focuses more on your self-thoughts and self-happiness than others.   

Self-love makes you more assertive. It gives you enough strength to deal with any undesirable things which held you back from moving ahead. Self-love protects you from the negativity of people and society. It helps to take any sharp decision in life. Other people’s views about you don’t impact your life decision. Self-love focus on what you want not what other people want in your life. You continuously do struggle to satisfied yourself, not others. It makes your life easy and more meaningful.  


                                

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Self-love makes you more challenging and fearless. You work for your dreams and life goals zealously. No one can break you, because you don’t rely on other opinions. self -love act as a barrier between you and all undesirable things which make you weak. It makes you free from the thought, what other people will think about you. You prefer your own happiness more than someone else views. It brings more energy and enthusiasm to put your thoughts into action.  It leads to your life on a different track. 


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Self-love helps you to move ahead without the venomous people. Sometimes people around you point out your negativity more than your positivity. Always make you feel you are incompetent. They always put barriers in the way of your success. Sometimes your life bad experience held you back. It paralyzes your self-worth. So, self-love makes you able to move on without all this bad phase of your life. It brings you in the new world. Where you can start anything with new zeal.